How To Date a Girl

How to date a girl?

" If you have ABSOLUTELY no idea how to date a girl, or is TOTALLY dumb-founded when approaching a girl, you need some help there! Here are some sure-fire tips that will blow her mind off, even if you have never dated anyone before! "

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Introduction

If you have just clicked on that link and arrived at this page, chances are, you are single? Being single can be fun yet lonely. There is no one to share your happy and sad moments. Your weekends get extremely lonely. Yes, you have hang-out buddies to chill out with, but that's about it! Soon, more buddies gonna leave you dying in the sun when they get attached!

If you are a total screw when it comes to dating women, especially beautiful ones, this page is for you. It will show you dating tips on how to understand women, how to approach and flirt with them with ease. Learn to look into the women's mind at a microscopic level.

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Tips for the first date

You have just managed to date the girl that you have been eyeing for months. Your ecstasy at the thought of your first date changed to panic when you realised that you do not have the slightest idea where to bring her. You start to worry if you might leave a bad impression on her. Well, fret not! Here are some dating ideas!

How to present yourself

Get some decent clothes. If you are bringing her to a restaurant for dinner, you need to be decently dressed. Get clothes that fit you. Women do like men with a certain sense of fashion. Sort out your wardrobe as well and throw away the clothes that you have not been wearing. And if you happen to invite her to your place some day, you wouldn't want her to be buried in the pile of clothes when she check out your wardrobe.

Personal grooming. Cut a nice hair-cut as well. Look suave and confident with your new hairstyle. Invest in a deodorant and cologne as well. You need to smell nice and be free of body odour! Some women run at the slightest hint of odour and you would not want to be the first guy to experience this!

Keep yourself updated with the current affairs. Talk about issues that matter to you. And if there are any issues that she might raise, you are able to comprehend them. You wouldn't want to embarass yourself by saying that Bill Clinton is the current President of USA ( this page is written in 2008 btw).

Where to bring her

Dinner at some highest point in your city. Some hotels or restaurants offer breath-taking sceneries of the city at night. The experience can be very memorable. If you guys ever marry, there is at least a topic to talk about. "David, do you still remember you brought me to XXX on our first date? I can never forget that....". However, remember to do some findings about that place. You wouldn't want to end up with her paying the bill!
The beach. If you know that she's the sporty type, heading to the beach will win you a point! Get to enjoy the sun and sweating, then wrap up the evening with a nice dinner by the beach restaurant, if any. There's no better place to enjoy the sunset with the breeze and a sumptuous dinner to go along with it. Stick around and gaze at the stars at night.
Some other entertainment such as bowling, play billard, watching movies or even go-karting. Fact-find more about her hobbies and see if you guys share any common interests. That will be killing two birds with one stone.

Additional tips

How educated and refined you are will depend on how you present yourself that day. Hold the door for her, let her through first and having table manners are just some examples. Well, it's part of being a gentleman, right? And ya, you should keep those coarse language at home too. Use it only when you watch soccer with your buddies!
Learn to listen and talk less. You will bore her to death if you keep talking about how cool Ronaldo was last night with that goal. Listen to what she has to say and it's the best chance to find out more about her. If you are the shy type, it's time to learn how to communicate! No girl likes talking to a machine gun, or one who is as dead as a stone!
Be truthful. Learn to tell her as many truthful things as possible. It's hard sometimes, but it's much better than having her learn the truth herself.

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How do I tell if she likes me?

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Ways to win her heart

How do you win her heart? You know that she has stolen your heart, whether she knows it or not. You can't stop thinking of her, you can't sleep without thinking of her. If you are sure she's the right one, here are some tips to win her heart. There's work to be done, so move your butt!

Looking and smelling good. How many times do I have to emphasize this? Women appreciate men who put in effort to look good. When you are going out on dates, dress appropriately. Style up your hair, put on cologne, etc. Her mind will register all the effort that you have put in.
Give her a surprise! The whole idea is to blow her mind now and then. Girls like pleasant surprises once in a while. Cook her something special, make her a small gift, bring her to a special place, write a love poem, etc. But don't spring a surprise by appearing at her door, with a flower bouquet, at 2am!
Pamper but not spoil her! If you are bring her out for dinner, it's only right for the guy to foot the bill. But if she's willing to go Dutch, let her. Do not offer to pay ALL the time, for she will take it for granted in time to come.
Quit smoking. Realise that not all girls like kissing a chimney. Your clothes and hair stink of tobacco smoke. Smokers have bad breath and yellow teeth. These are enough reasons to turn a woman off. And you should seriously quit smoking for your own health as well.
Make YOURSELF feel important. If you are trying to win her heart, she has to see why she should accept you. Bench on your plus points, and eliminate as many bad points as possible. If you have nothing to show for, I don't see why she should choose you. On the other hand, you have to make HER feel important as well. Strike a balance somewhere.

Kissing tips

Kissing is a complex behaviour, and is much more than the touching of lips. The significance behind each kiss includes love, affection, acceptance and a build-up to sex. It's a form of connection between two individuals, and that they feel for each other so much that they want to share something together. Kissing is one way. No two people kiss without any feelings attached to the process. And so, if you want your first kiss to be memorable, you got to know these tricks. A bad kiss might turn your potential life-partner away!

Well, there can be two situations. Intentional and unintentional. The following tips apply to both situations, whether intentional or not. The main problem that we face is we don't know if she's ready. If she's not ready, you will probably end up with a red cheek or even a warning call from her mom.

If you do think she's ready, then get ready the following stuff.

Breath mints

Mouth wash

Toothbrush

Toothpaste

Tongue cleaner

Floss

Denture cleansing solution

Let's assume you plan the whole deal. If you are able to invite her to your house, great! But take note! If she refuses to kiss or is not ready, STOP! Respect her as an individual and you will earn the respect and love back many times over!

The basics

Clean, sterilise and refresh your mouth with the items indicated above. You have to smell nice! Pop some mints as well!
Get into a comfortable position. You can be sitting on the sofa. Avoid the bed as it might make her uncomfortable. Don't give her the wrong idea!
Hold her hands and talk about childhood memories. Girls love this.
Move your faces closer if you think she's hinting. Then plant a kiss on the cheek. Then move slowly to the lips.
Pause and then smile gently. Laugh slowly. Girls go crazy over this!
Continue kissing and explore the other areas such as the neck, ears and cheek.
If you think she's cool about french kissing, go ahead! Just remember not to bite!

The killer tips

Put some soothing music to set the mood.

Use candles. Set the ambience right with comfortable lighting.

Asking her for permission also works. You can try, " I'd like to kiss you (name)".

Put your finger under her chin. Tell her she's amazing. Be sincere anyway.

Don'ts

Don't come across as someone who only wants her in bed. We know, but, refrain!

Don't appear desperate. Yikes!

Don't let your hands wander into the no-touch zones. Show her, and yourself some respect too.(unless otherwise indicated)

For a complete kissing guide, hop down to kissing101.net

Online dating - pros & cons

Online dating is very different from the conventional face-to-face dating. You do not get to see the person in real, until you meet him/her of course. The reason why most people date is to settle down. You might also wish to expand your social circle by knowing more people, or find people of similar interest. The whole idea is to have fun doing it. However, there are hidden dangers behind online dating, which we shall discuss here.

Pros of online dating

If you are the typically shy kinda person, online dating can be your stepping stone. You do not have to speak to the person you wish to know until you are ready to exchange numbers. You will have more time to think over your answers as you communicate through emails and messages.
You can find your type easily by going through the personals. Most online dating sites have search tools to quickly match the criterias you are looking for. You can even look at their photos.
You can take your time to choose the friends you wish to meet.
You have literally thousands to choose from. The world is in your hands! And of course, we are not talking about long-distance relationships, but rather those in your area.

Cons of online dating

Misinterpretation of themselves. Some users do not reveal their real identity, including age, preferences or even martial status! Others use outdated photos or worse yet, photos of other people!
Some online companies harvest users' personal contacts for email spamming purposes. They sometimes claim that such emails are for marketing purposes, or in an effort to improve their services. Rather, such information is sold to other companies which advertise more dating-related services.
People create 'fake' profiles on these dating sites to spam others.
Rise in crimes. Online dating provides a platform for offenders to meet unknowing victims. Rape, molestation and internet fraud are just some examples.
Other social problems such as HIV infections (through sex), poor worker productivity due to lack of sleep or overly-obessed with dating sites.

How to write your online personal & online dating etiquette

A good description of yourself will definitely increase the chances of meeting more people. Your profile will appear more frequently whenever a search matches your profile. If you want to get the most out of your membership, here are some basics that you need to know.

Complete your profile fully. Insert as much description about yourself as you possibly can. Add in all the important details such as hobbies, preferences, expectations, job description, etc. You are trying to fill the other party with who you really are. At least, they would know what to expect when they meet you.
A picture tells a thousand words. Need we say more? And please use a recent picture of yourself!
Be truthful. Don't say things like you are 80% Brad Pitt-look-alike when you are obvious not. And refrain from saying you love animals when you are allergic to fur. But too much truth can hurt, we know, so choose to tell the right things.
Reply online messages as quickly as you can. A late reply might indicate you are not interested at all. You might miss out on the RIGHT one!
DO NOT SPAM! Online dating sites are meant solely for that purpose and not for you to advertise your business!
Be kind with words. Gently reject people. Treat everyone the way you wish to be treated. Respect her as an individual, as a wholesome being who needs that little love.

Sex after marriage - still normal?

This question is actually a variation of another common question. Should I have sex before my marriage? The reason why I ask it the other way round is that there are more guys who had sex than those who haven't had before marriage! It has already become a norm, a part of our culture. Guys and girls-alike talk about how 'good' their partners were in bed. They share tips on how to have better sex.

So this begs the question, is it ok to have sex before marriage?

From the Bible's point of view, sex before marriage is condemned. Sex before marriage is wrong because it involves having sex with someone you are not married to. Only sex between men and wife is approved by God.

If you are not the religious type, I feel that sex before marriage is ok, as long as you keep it safe (you know what I mean). The idea from the Bible was taken with the assumption that every man will marry a woman on earth. But we know this is not the case. Not everyone wants to get married. Are they supposed to abstain from sex totally?

To sum up my point, I think you should discuss the topic with your date and see if she is comfortable with the idea. Like I have mentioned earlier, everything should be done out of respect and genuine love. Well, on the other hand, if you can save it till after your marriage, I congratulate you for staying the course!

Valentine ideas

Valentine's day is not the only day to show your love for your other half. But the significance behind it explains why people get really romantic and mushy on this special day. Guys give flowers and chocolates, couples go for candlelight dinner, star-gazing by the beach. Isn't that boring, repeating it year after year? Here are some ideas that you can explore for this coming Valentine's day, with a little twist.

Valentine gifts

Chocolates and flowers make the number one choice as V-day gifts. You can make a little difference by attending chocolate-making lessons with her, and then presenting the chocolate that you have just made to her in front of everyone. How sweet can that be? Or opt for a chocolate fondue for dessert. Add lots of fruits ( we reckon strawberry is the most romantic fruit ), cookies, cheese and mashmallows.

If you are the one preparing dinner, cut her a heart-shaped steak, pizza, or even burger! Just make everything on her plate 'hearty', including the plate! She will be so touched that she will oven-dry the dinner and keep it for memory! Don't forget the wine with heart-shaped ice cubes as well!

If she loves music, you can also create a nice-looking music album with all the must-hear love songs in it. I ever tried that, and it was so cool! If you are good at art, draw her something so abstract that she doesn't understand, but she will love it anyway. Or just grab a nice diary and start drawing in it, write love poems to tell her how important she is (blah, blah), paste pictures of you two together, etc. Just release those creative juices!

Where to bring her

How often do you have candlelight dinners? Most of us are busy working and weekends are usually spend lazing at home. It's time to splurge on some decent dinner. Do remember to book in advance and do ask for candles.

The beach can be a romantic place to go to. If you wish to have a quite moment, where else but the seaside? Start the evening with a picnic and watch the sunset together. Play some music to set the mood, and if you can play any musical instrument, bring it along. Then gaze the stars at night. Bring along a telescope. Impress her by identifying the North Star. Be sure to read up on the constellations first.

Go for a massage. There are some places which offer massage for couples. When she starts giggling from all the itch, snap a photo of her and frame it up.

Stay at home. Prepare a nice dinner (see above). Rent a good movie and watch it together with her. Have a nice hot bath with her. Remember to add rose petals and sweet-smelling bathing oils to the water. The rest of the program is up to your imagination.

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