How To Date a Guy

How to date a guy?

" Get the ATTENTION of the MAN of your dreams even when you are 100 metres away by following these simple LAWS of ATTRACTION; and know how to keep the man by your side, FOREVER, even though you have never dated before! "

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Introduction

It can be a real torture to be single. Whenever there is a gathering, you are the only one without a partner. You are, in fact, not unattractive. You turn heads on the streets. You are popular with your peers. Why are you single then?

Did you know that you are probably making mistakes when you try to approach and date men? These mistakes are causing the ideal men to lose interest in you and at the same time you are attracting the wrong kind of men. The reason why you are struggling to keep the man of your dreams is because you have been subconsciously doing the WRONG things to turn men off, even though you are not aware of it!

It's time to take stock of the situation and see what you are doing wrong. Learn how you can quickly attract the right man into your life, and keep him for good!

What do guys dislike about girls?

Just like guys who have bad habits to turn women off, guys have their fair share of dislikes too. Here are some things that guys dislike about women. Sorry girls, no offence here! We are just trying to be honest!

Physical

Guys generally do not like girls who are overweight. Girls who are overweight tend to give the impression that they do not care about themselves. They do not watch their diets, they do not exercise to stay healthy.

Girls who don't shave. They look really disturbing in those sexy swimwear.

Girls with too many tattoos on their bodies. They can be unsightly and some guys do feel intimidated!

Behaviour

Girls who complain and whine over everything all the time. Like how the hot weather was ruining her makeup, like how long the queue was, like how tired her legs were after all the shopping (and yes, the guys are carrying all the stuff), like how horrible the food taste, like.....blah, blah.

Materialistic girls get our votes too. It's fine to ask for an occasional gift, but asking for too many can be a real turn-off. And if the price of the gift is a measure of your status, you are getting it wrong. We do not really need girls who love to show off.

Girls who dictate our lives. We do not appreciate girls who control our lives. You should be wearing this for dinner. You should spend less time with your drinking buddies. You should learn to play piano. You should not buy this ugly phone. You should not.....

Women with a bad temper. Stop throwing those tantrums, girls! There is no need to flare up over trivial matters. And yes, we like girls who know how to control their emotions.

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Should the girl take the first initiative?

There are always 2 sides to a coin. This issue has boggled both sexes and there is no definite answer to this question. Here are some views on this topic. See if it helps.

Yes, a girl should take the first initiative

Some men are shy and do not take the initiative. They have absolutely no idea what to say to women. So they avoid the idea of approaching women completely. If you sit down and wait for the guy to take the initiative, you might be missing the boat altogether.
A woman should have the right to pursure her own happiness. Rather than being a sitting duck, she can get to choose the man she likes.
Some men are afraid of rejections. This is especially true if they had been rejected before. These men do not have the confidence to approach women. By taking the initiative, you are lifting a heavy load off the men. At the same time, you are building up their confidence again.

No, it's the guy's job

Some girls are equally conservative and would rather be a sitting duck than a rejected one.
You might not want to appear 'easy' and 'flirty' when apparently you were just being friendly.
Some women feel good about themselves when being approached by other men. So they prefer to let the guys take the first step.
You might drop the wrong hint to the wrong guy. You might just want to be friends, but he is taking it as a signal to date him. No matter what happens, the girl is on the losing end.

To sum it up, it is best to play the situation to your advantage. There is no rule as to who should take the initiative. If you know that the cute guy has an obvious interest to know you, a simple smile might do the trick. And guys, if you are reading this, you should know what to do!

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How do I tell if he likes me?

<< A short YouTube video to show you the tell-tale signs he likes you!

Should I abstain from sex before marriage?

Here is the answer to a similar question from the guys. You can view it here. To sum it up, if you are not the religious type, sex before marriage should be ok.

Valentine ideas

If you are the one planning the Valentine's Day celebration, there's a lot to be done. For one, it's usually the guy who is doing the job. But if for some reason, you are given this mammoth task ( we reckon you volunteered ), here are some Valentine ideas and gifts to surprise your man. We love surprises too!

Valentine gifts

Cologne is a popular choice. Nothing beats the smell of a nice-smelling guy. Trust me, guys love cologne as much as girls love makeup. Our choice? Cool Water by Davidoff for men.

A nice watch. It is a symbol of status for men. And the guys have no reason for being late as well.

An iphone? Guys love tech stuff. What else to beat this toy from Apple? Your man will be more organised, looks cooler with that phone, and most importantly, more devoted to you. With functions so powerful, your man will be spoilt for good.

Sexy innerwear for both of you. A pair of smiley boxers or tongs should turn the heat on that night. And get yourself an outfit that matches his as well. The night is yours.

Where to bring him

To a soccer match. If you know he loves soccer, bring him to a match especially if his favourite team is playing. Then again, soccer fans like us never miss a match in the first place. If he's willing to miss a match just to company you for that night, counter-spring him a surprise!

Go for a couple's massage. There's nothing more relaxing than having a massage by the seaside.

Check out some tech exhibitions that day. Guys simply love gadgets. You might even want to buy him something he likes on the spot! When he questions about the last-min gift and wonders if you are sincere after all, just say you read the suggestion from here!

Anyway, girls shouldn't do the planning for the celebrations. Let the guys do it. Let them sweat their heads off. Let them do all the s##t. Chill ladies!